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Anyway...drinkies tonight then? How you feeling? What are you wanting to come of it?
yeah, we're having our 'summit' meeting at the same time as the G8!!
i'm hoping that we get back together...i was perfectly happy. hoping she has received girly advice on the lines of, 'just enjoy yourself for the next few years, as burdock seems nice(!)'. Anything is better than her just refusing point blank 'cos of the kids situation.
At a bare minimum, I'd like her back to my flat....I have the same needs as Duder
yeah, we're having our 'summit' meeting at the same time as the G8!!
i'm hoping that we get back together...i was perfectly happy. hoping she has received girly advice on the lines of, 'just enjoy yourself for the next few years, as burdock seems nice(!)'. Anything is better than her just refusing point blank 'cos of the kids situation.
At a bare minimum, I'd like her back to my flat....I have the same needs as Duder
Who arranged the get together? She might be thinking "maybe he's changed his mind - that's what he wants to talk to me about"?
You're both idiots like - neither of you should be that adament on the kids issue either way! Its way too early for yous to know whether you want kids together...and that's what it should be, kids together. People who make up their minds about kids before they're even living with someone truly scare me, as it's like seeing kids as a commodity or something. (But then, that's probably just me).
Knackers - just meet up, have a couple of drinks, call each other knackers, then go back and sh*g
Who arranged the get together? She might be thinking "maybe he's changed his mind - that's what he wants to talk to me about"?
You're both idiots like - neither of you should be that adament on the kids issue either way! Its way too early for yous to know whether you want kids together...and that's what it should be, kids together. People who make up their minds about kids before they're even living with someone truly scare me, as it's like seeing kids as a commodity or something. (But then, that's probably just me).
Knackers - just meet up, have a couple of drinks, call each other knackers, then go back and sh*g
she knows she wants kids some day, so doesn't see the point of a relationship with someone who doesn't. it's a chicken and egg thing!
please could you forward your last 2 lines to her!!
[edit] oops, i've hijacked the thread...yeah, that posh spice, talentless old ripper...
Its way too early for yous to know whether you want kids together...and that's what it should be, kids together. People who make up their minds about kids before they're even living with someone truly scare me, as it's like seeing kids as a commodity or something.
Can depend on the age to be honest. If she's thirties and childless and the urge for motherhood 'at some point' is there for her, then she's not going to change her mind for any bloke, so she's being sensible. I've seen too many friends and couples break up because they werent honest in the first place, or because her bio-clock gave her an alarm call and he couldn't hear it.
Love isn't blind forever, and the older you get, the less patient you are when meeting a possible partner who doesnt want the same from life that you do.
Oh, I’m sorry….I seem to be lost. I was looking for the sane side of town. I’d ask you for directions, but I have a feeling you’ve never been there and I’d be wasting my time.
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