Now I know why some of you are sexist...

[Jog On]

Sounds to me like you've read and believed way too much crap you've read on the internet.

Don't pretend to be something you are not - i.e. be honest about who you are.

Be yourself, ideally from the start of the relationship (obv hold off farting at the dinner table on the first date). If your partner does not like you for who you are, then they're not the right partner for you.

To assume that "women want..." is to limit your options to those women that conform to the stereotypes that you are spouting - and unless you're very lucky, you're unlikely to end up with a long lasting, happy, equal relationship - assuming that's what you're looking for. If you want to get laid as often as possible, then carry on as you are, but you're likely to end up with the sort of women that Brillo describes above.

I've been in the same relationship for 20 years. The issue was me letting myself go and becoming a hen-pecked 'nice guy'. I've since changed that and things have improved dramatically for both of us. yes I have read a lot on the subject as turning my relationship round is important to me. Keeping it fresh and exciting takes some doing.

The crap on the Internet I'm not believing anymore is all the stuff about having to be a fluffy duffy "worship the ground she walks on and tolerate everything" beta chump. I've tried that and it's shyte.

There is no assumption about 'what women want' just tried and tested ways of improving myself which I've found first hand actually work. It just happens to go against the masculinity = bad narrative that keeps getting spouted everywhere.

[mudskipper]

The crap on the Internet I'm not believing anymore is all the stuff about having to be a fluffy duffy "worship the ground she walks on and tolerate everything" beta chump. I've tried that and it's shyte.

Do you have links to the sites that are offering this advice to men?

[original PM]

Do you have links to the sites that are offering this advice to men?

Pornhub
Xhamster
Xnxx
Redtube

That should keep you warm for a while.

😃

[SueEllen]

Pornhub
Xhamster
Xnxx
Redtube

That should keep you warm for a while.

😃

MS doesn't need to be kept warm. Plus Mr MS will get worried if she comes up with new ideas....

[SueEllen]

I've been in the same relationship for 20 years. The issue was me letting myself go and becoming a hen-pecked 'nice guy'. I've since changed that and things have improved dramatically for both of us. yes I have read a lot on the subject as turning my relationship round is important to me. Keeping it fresh and exciting takes some doing.

The crap on the Internet I'm not believing anymore is all the stuff about having to be a fluffy duffy "worship the ground she walks on and tolerate everything" beta chump. I've tried that and it's shyte.

Do you have links to that advice to men?

There is no assumption about 'what women want' just tried and tested ways of improving myself which I've found first hand actually work. It just happens to go against the masculinity = bad narrative that keeps getting spouted everywhere.

And as MS said do you have links to this stuff also?

I need to keep the young people I'm related to away from this rot.

[greenlake]

MS doesn't need to be kept warm. Plus Mr MS will get worried if she comes up with new ideas....

[original PM]

They look accommodating....

[BrilloPad]

They look accommodating....

Mudskippers are usually accommodating. For a BigMac....

[greenlake]

Mudskippers are usually accommodating. For a BigMac....

Nom nom nom....

[Jog On]

Do you have links to the sites that are offering this advice to men?

Post #1 of this thread is a good example