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Mobbing/Bullying?

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    #81
    It is usually a sign that everything is right with an organisation. I can well believe she was a but upset at you leaving because she has now got no one to blame and you can't keep failing out with people and blame them so she has used a life up.

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      #82
      Coming late to this but fair play OP you did the right thing. Ignore the "man up" comments - some people can crack on and ignore the permies some cant' - we're all different. No amount of money is worth making yourself ill over.

      I did it years ago working for a right a*se of a client manager. (although he was the same with permie staff). Ended up not working for a few months. Made the same stupid mistake a few years where I knew the permies were toxic (bit like your situation) but stayed because it was money and it was local. Bad idea.

      If I've learnt anything over the years its that some people are just assholes and that you'll never win an argument if the permies dont like you.

      Glad to say my last few gigs the permies/managers have been great.....
      Rhyddid i lofnod psychocandy!!!!

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        #83
        Well done to u for taking control back. having been bullied in my permie days twice I can appreciate what you must have felt like. Anyone can be bullied and I am 6ft 4 !! Good luck finding the next role and remember that u are good at your job

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          #84
          Originally posted by redman View Post
          Well done to u for taking control back. having been bullied in my permie days twice I can appreciate what you must have felt like. Anyone can be bullied and I am 6ft 4 !! Good luck finding the next role and remember that u are good at your job
          That's why you were picked on. As a tall individual if you used your physical strength you would be arrested.
          "You’re just a bad memory who doesn’t know when to go away" JR

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