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Quite; I wouldn't bother offering advice. It's not advice you're after, it's sympathy and validation.
It was more of a general observation.
From a psychological perspective regarding games playing in relationships Suity takes on the role of the 'alcoholic'. For validation he wants to be both castigated and saved. As you say it's validation. Like a small attention seeking child 'look at me mummy, look at me daddy' Suity craves attention either good or bad, but mostly bad. In the same way as children will misbehave Suity gets more attention for his bad behavior type posts then he does for his 'good' ones.
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