Wedding costs

[Pondlife]

Poll to follow (wait for it....)

So, how much inc the honeymoon should I be forking out for her 'happiest day' ?

Some of the bridal magazines she's got are just ridiculous, I mean +£35K FFS

Brillo, yes yes, your opinion is duly noted and will be taken into consideration.

 

[Ardesco]

Opps I didn't see the "Including Honeymoon" bit. I would amend my choice to over £20,000 if could.

(BTW doesn't matter how much you *should* spend, you'll still end up spending over £20,000 anyway.)

 

[cailin maith]

Mine cost about 14k but that was 8 and a half years ago.... but did include honeymoon....

 

[DimPrawn]

Whatever you spend it will look like the bargain of the century compared to the cost of the divorce a few years later.

With this in mind spend spend spend.

 

[oracleslave]

Poll to follow (wait for it....)

So, how much inc the honeymoon should I be forking out for her 'happiest day' ?

Some of the bridal magazines she's got are just ridiculous, I mean +£35K FFS

Brillo, yes yes, your opinion is duly noted and be taken into consideration.

I wouldn't recommend setting a budget up front. My approach was to take each suggestion put to me, decide if it was logical, worth it* and within reason and go from there.

*worth it is something that makes her happy not something that makes financial sense.

 

[cailin maith]

Whatever you spend it will look like the bargain of the century compared to the cost of the divorce a few years later.

With this in mind spend spend spend.

worked for me.... worked for him too seeing as my dad paid for everything except the honeymoon!!!

 

[rootsnall]

Start from the bargaining stance of you just want to elope and get married while just the two of you are away on a weeks holiday. Then begrudgingly give way very slowly as it expands into a 30K extravaganza !

My eventual solution was to get married in a hotel with a civil ceremony starting late afternoon ie. no cars needed, only one lot of food

 

[r0bly0ns]

done in 2002:

wedding in very a nice church. - http://www.saltaireurc.org.uk/gallery.html
decent photographer
one 7 seater daimler for ferrying family / bridesmaids / groomsmen about.
one 2 seater convertable old time thingy for taking Mrs and her dad to church and then me and Mrs to Reception.
Sit down meal at a middle of the road hotel for about 60 people, with a disco at night and buffet for 100.
One week honeymoon in the UK cause neither of us had a passport and I'd lost my birth certificate moving house so couldn't get one in time.


Total came to about 7k

 

[BrilloPad]

Poll to follow (wait for it....)

So, how much inc the honeymoon should I be forking out for her 'happiest day' ?

Some of the bridal magazines she's got are just ridiculous, I mean +£35K FFS

Brillo, yes yes, your opinion is duly noted and will be taken into consideration.

I wont say anything if I get invited to the stag do...

 

[Moose423956]

Don't bother. Put your money on a horse - more chance of happiness.