So did you call her & ask her why she hadn't responded to your text?el duder said:I spoke to her last night. I gave her the heave ho. She tried to pursuade me that it was a pure mistake that she forgot to txt, and that she has been sent up north for work for a month.
I said thats cool, however its not gonna work and fu*ked her off.
el duder said:It aint right. If she really did like me, then she would make or find the time.


SallyAnne said:You totally made the right choice Duder - if she'd liked you, you would have ben the first person she called when sent up North.
zamzummim said:Why would he be the first person she calls?
SallyAnne said:Because when you first meet someone, if you are into them, you cant stop thinking about them! You cant wait until your next date, and you spend all your time wanting to text/call/email/whatever. Just like Duder has been doing. His behaviour over the last few weeks doesn't make him a loser or anything, it makes him normal!
She hasn't shown any of the same behaviour though. If Duder had to cancel last nights date because he'd been sent up North, the first thing he would have done would be texted her to let her know.
SallyAnne said:You totally made the right choice Duder - if she'd liked you, you would have ben the first person she called when sent up North.
And I think we all know that that was a complete lie.
Try not to be too sad about it, start feeling a bit more empowered!!
And start preparing yourself for the humiliation which will be me and Squirrel trying to get you fixed up all night on the 9th![]()