No point. You have no input whatsoever chaps.
Just get yourself out at lunch time to buy her something big, expensive and sparkly![]()
I was working abroad as the wedding was planned. Arrived on the Thursday, married Sat, honeymoon sunday. Didn't organise a thing. At the start of planning, I did try to get involved, quickly realised this wasn't a good idea.
Best thing I never did.

The things I organised were the Honeymoon and the rings, and a joint effort on the reception.
Other than that, all I had to do was pay.
Total in the end was around 20k all in, and the weather was glorious too.