Update on b)

[Zorba]

By the way, will anyone else be able to see what I'm writing here, or in my MSN conversations? I mean via the network or whatever.

Client site? Assume yes.

[Moose423956]

Client site? Assume yes.

Oh bollocks.

[NickFitz]

By the way, will anyone else be able to see what I'm writing here, or in my MSN conversations? I mean via the network or whatever.

Client site? Assume yes.

Oh bollocks.

(Sorry Moose, I know you're having a rough time but that was just too funny...)

[Moose423956]

(Sorry Moose, I know you're having a rough time but that was just too funny...)

Glad to be of service.

[brownie74]

bootulip man

Didn't you both promise to love and cherish each other too? Not much of that been going on for a while eh?

Stop giving yourself a hard time Moose.

You should have spoken (and then left) your wife first. FACT.

You didn't....but at least you've done something!!!

The worst thing you could have done was rolled over and died - lived out the rest of your life without taking that chance...been miserable forever. I just dont believe in that.

Whatever comes out of today Moose - you've taken the bull by the horns!!! You should be so proud of yourself. And today should be the start of the rest of your life.

it would have been a step forward if he had dumped his wife first.

this is a step backwards. if she says YES she is weak because she goes for blokes who cheat on women and therefore has low self esteem. his current missus has stuck with him through 6 years of this madness and is therefore a good bird in my book.

[Zorba]

Oh bollocks.

Sorry - that's life.

[SallyAnne]

she goes for blokes who cheat on women and therefore has low self esteem.

What utter b*llocks.

[Cooperinliverp00l]

I told her. Via MSN. Then I ran away and hid.

She thinks I'm messing around. Told her I'm not, but she hasn't replied yet.

Oh dear . What have I done!

Does this mean that you have told A it's over or have you just simply ran away ??

[Spartacus]

Most likely result now is that woman b) will be shocked and stunned and tell him to get lost as she's not interested in a love cheat She will probably tell woman a) who will be shocked and stunned and tell him to get lost as she's not interested in a love cheat. Except a) will divorce him and take half of everything he has whereas b) will just never talk to him again.

Bottom line: life in a bedsit with neither woman beckons.

Harsh truths I'm afraid. You might buck the trend but don't count on it.

[KathyWoolfe]

I am not exatly an expert on marital advice but I figure sudden change of locks and her packed stuff in bags sitting outside is a good way to split up.

HIS packed stuff outside in bags is more likely!