Girlfriend says its either her or the cat! (while crying in the middle of a walk)

[wobbegong]

Well, we had a really nice night at Ceroc Dancing - was a very nice beginners class, where we learned three really good moves. As we move to different partners, I had an absolute well up for it stunner whose intentions I had to reject. It killed me.

Gf changed her t-shirt in the car, because the Woodhead Pass broke her out in a sweat. I can see why - shefollowed me back home after, around 60 on the motorway. I can understand drivers getting rather hacked off.

Once back home, we get the laptop out, look at a few things. She makes a big deal about wanting to know my browsing history. I did the sensible thing and deleted it, told her that there is history of mine, and a couple of mates who also use the laptop. She then look at me rather paranoid asking how often my mate comes over. As if this is any of her business!

She is coming over tomorrow evening (Friday) right through to Sunday evening. Busy Saturday afternoon (as do a regular charity thing), but could really do without the extra hour on Sunday morning!! Still, need to get a load of weeding done on Sunday for a landscape gardenener coming on Monday, so could be putting her to good use!

In the next installment are we going to see you tripping over the cat falling into the arms of a visiting fund-raising girl guide, just as GF walks into the room? "Darling, it's not what it looks like!". Meanwhile the vicar that called earlier about the Church roof fund donation you promised to make has stumbled into a broom cupboard by mistake, tearing his trousers off on some waist-high metal shelving, on hearing the commotion, rushes out, trouserless, crashing into GF throwing them both entwined onto the floor.

Oh crikey, what a to-do!

[fullyautomatix]

1. That didn't happen at all, did it.

2. Woodhead Pass. Is this a dance move, or a place?!

You appear to actively dislike this woman, Wilmslow. Now, I'm no expert, but....is that the best basis for a relationship?

There is no fooling you, is there ?

[shaunbhoy]

Whenever I see a Wilmslow thread I just think...........................

[maui50]

Well, we had a really nice night at Ceroc Dancing - was a very nice beginners class, where we learned three really good moves. As we move to different partners, I had an absolute well up for it stunner whose intentions I had to reject. It killed me.

Gf changed her t-shirt in the car, because the Woodhead Pass broke her out in a sweat. I can see why - shefollowed me back home after, around 60 on the motorway. I can understand drivers getting rather hacked off.

Once back home, we get the laptop out, look at a few things. She makes a big deal about wanting to know my browsing history. I did the sensible thing and deleted it, told her that there is history of mine, and a couple of mates who also use the laptop. She then look at me rather paranoid asking how often my mate comes over. As if this is any of her business!

She is coming over tomorrow evening (Friday) right through to Sunday evening. Busy Saturday afternoon (as do a regular charity thing), but could really do without the extra hour on Sunday morning!! Still, need to get a load of weeding done on Sunday for a landscape gardenener coming on Monday, so could be putting her to good use!

Wilmslow, what this girl needs is a hobby. You clearly have your own routine on a weekend, your own things to do in your own house, and you make space for your friends in all that. What did she do all weekend before she met you? Encourage the girl to get a project - something of her own to worry about (and preferably over a weekend!). Right now, YOU are her project and the focus of her attention - so as she has nothing else to occupy her thoughts with, she's moving faster than you in the relationship.

Although she might just be the kind of woman who thinks setting up a cosy home is the only hobby for her. In which case, you'll be bored to tears any minute now.

[Wilmslow]

Woodhead Pass may well be a new type of move, but it is a notorious yet stunning trans-pennine road over the Pennines. I love it personally, but gf is a nervous driver, as well as a nervous person, so absolutely hates it. It proves her commitment to me if she is willing to brave the road!

Good point about the proect. She is trying to sell her house (last tie with her ex), so not into home or garden improvements like I am. Her friends are not in her area, so she does spend a lot of evenings at home getting bored, wanting me to be over to entertain her.

Having said that, she has just joined Slimming World, which is a project in it's own right, so, we will see how things settle down in due course! She also now has the taste for Ceroc dancing, so we will be busy giving her a good cerocing this weekend.

[MaryPoppins]

Woodhead Pass may well be a new type of move, but it is a notorious yet stunning trans-pennine road over the Pennines. I love it personally, but gf is a nervous driver, as well as a nervous person

She sounds like a loser. Ditch her.

[Wilmslow]

She sounds like a loser. Ditch her.

Done. Let's elope.

[MaryPoppins]

Done. Let's elope.

Piss off!

[shaunbhoy]

Having said that, she has just joined Slimming World, which is a project in it's own right

So she is an insecure clingy wobblebottom then? Really ticks all the boxes doesn't she?

[cailin maith]

Piss off!

See I think the problem is that Wilmslow goes into these (many) relationships 150% instead of treading easy earlier on. So when the girl thinks "ok - he wants to spend loads of time with me", Wilmslow backs off.

Wilmslow - just save everyone the grief and bin her off now.