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Don't want to marry but have kid on the way
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If you are unmarried, you need to make sure your name is on the birth certificate to ensure you have parental rights if you split.
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A lot of I'll informed people posting. Purely talking finances, then married or not you will have a financial obligation for your child. If you split from the mother then you will still have to pay that. If you are married you may also have to pay towards maintaining her lifestyle and compensating her for bringing up your child (if that is how it pans out). Not enough info given to give any opinion on how that might pan out.
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Go to Mumsnet, there are countless threads on how to screw over dads on maintenance etc. Just read through them all and then devise a strategy.Vote Corbyn ! Save this country !Comment
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Originally posted by ELBBUBKUNPS View Post
If I don't marry her do I lose rights to see my child etc if we then split ? .Socialism is inseparably interwoven with totalitarianism and the abject worship of the state.
No Socialist Government conducting the entire life and industry of the country could afford to allow free, sharp, or violently-worded expressions of public discontent.Comment
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Hopefully our CUK Marriage councilor Brillopad will be here soon to offer his advice.Last edited by MarillionFan; 14 October 2015, 18:18.What happens in General, stays in General.You know what they say about assumptions!Comment
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Originally posted by northernladuk View PostPlease don't think that not being married will make a jot of difference to this if it ever hits. I don't think it's on a par with being married yet but the lack of a wedding certificate will make no difference when it comes to divvying the goodies up compared to a married couple in the same situation. It will still end the same albeit a bit more messy if you are not married.
According to the law, you won't get fleeced for half your stuff, and it looks MUCH more favourable than being married.
Personally I don't think I will ever get married or express any intention to. But I might have a fake wedding just for appearances sake.Unless you're the lead dog, the scenery never changes.
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Divorce ruling will stop husbands cheating their wives out of money - Telegraph
Look at the comments. They will tell you all you need to know.Comment
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Originally posted by DodgyAccountant View PostDivorce ruling will stop husbands cheating their wives out of money - Telegraph
Look at the comments. They will tell you all you need to know.
BTW, if you were using protection and your wife got pregs, I mean, the failure rate is pretty low. I'd be suspicious, unless I wasn't particularly religious about using it.Unless you're the lead dog, the scenery never changes.
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