Sexual Harrassment

[dx4100]

You have chosen to be involved. That was really really stupid. You should have said no.

Agree with this

But you've said yes and have no choice but to follow through.

Disagree with this... Its never too late to realise you are in a situation you don't need to be in and back out.

[dx4100]

If it's flirting ok, we all do it, like 'you look nice/sexy in that' - ok, thats fine (in my book)

Really.... Good luck with that

[SueEllen]

Disagree with this... Its never too late to realise you are in a situation you don't need to be in and back out.

Since he's agreed all he needs to do is tell the the other guy to behave and nip it in the bud now.

I know permies and contractors who have done this but then they are decent individuals......

[mudskipper]

If it's flirting ok, we all do it, like 'you look nice/sexy in that' - ok, thats fine (in my book)

To reiterate...

If the recipient is uncomfortable, the comments need to stop, regardless of whether they were intended as a joke/compliment etc. People do not complain lightly - if a complaint is made then it deserves to be treated seriously. No-one should feel uncomfortable at work because of gender.

[Platypus]

'you look nice/sexy in that' - ok, thats fine (in my book)

Not fine in my book. In fact way way over the acceptable line

[pr1]

If it's flirting ok, we all do it, like 'you look nice/sexy in that' - ok, thats fine (in my book)

hahaha, you need a new book

[psychocandy]

Not fine in my book. In fact way way over the acceptable line

I agree - thats a bit creepy if you ask me.

I've been with current client almost 2 years and they are the most laid back bunch ever. BUT I wouldnt say something like that - all it takes is for someone to take it the wrong way etc....

[dx4100]

Since he's agreed all he needs to do is tell the the other guy to behave and nip it in the bud now.

I know permies and contractors who have done this but then they are decent individuals......

No way would I be having that conversation with someone I didn't go contracting for that tulip

[dx4100]

I agree - thats a bit creepy if you ask me.

I've been with current client almost 2 years and they are the most laid back bunch ever. BUT I wouldnt say something like that - all it takes is for someone to take it the wrong way etc....

Or the right way ?

[SlipTheJab]

Personally I would tell the client I ain't spying for them and its nothing to do with me....

Why the hell are you getting involved in this tulip ?

Exactly WTF has it got to do with you?