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Originally posted by BrilloPad View PostI was thinking that. I have 2 disabled children - MrsBP would struggle with even a part time job.
Even if the kid isn't disabled sorting out and paying for childcare for the few hours after school is a PITTA. (Presuming the workplace is also happy you turn up around 10am.) Then there are school holidays to manage. If there are no nearby family/close friends' then you are fecked.
In short until the kid is in secondary school and can prove they aren't a danger to themselves - and this depends on the individual kid - they need an adult or a sensible older teenager around."You’re just a bad memory who doesn’t know when to go away" JRComment
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Originally posted by SueEllen View PostThat was a polite version of what I was going to write.
Even if the kid isn't disabled sorting out and paying for childcare for the few hours after school is a PITTA. (Presuming the workplace is also happy you turn up around 10am.) Then there are school holidays to manage. If there are no nearby family/close friends' then you are fecked.
In short until the kid is in secondary school and can prove they aren't a danger to themselves - and this depends on the individual kid - they need an adult or a sensible older teenager around.
You are always polite. Unlike me.....Comment
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Bite her hand off
Originally posted by macme View PostH I just received a proposal from her solicitor asking fro 35K more and also a spousal maintenance of £1,000k a month. .Comment
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Have you considered being the main parent? That way you get all the joys, less work and the pleasure of seeing the ex’s ideal disappear down the tubes.See You Next TuesdayComment
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Originally posted by tarbera View PostBite her hand off NOW !!!! take the deal otherwise £35K will soon go on legal fees anyway, then you will still need to pay!!merely at clientco for the entertainmentComment
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Originally posted by Lance View PostHave you considered being the main parent? That way you get all the joys, less work and the pleasure of seeing the ex’s ideal disappear down the tubes."You’re just a bad memory who doesn’t know when to go away" JRComment
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Originally posted by SueEllen View PostHe won't get less work but different and more rewarding work plus the pleasure of having a closer relationship with his son.
ex-mrs-bp held onto the kids until she had the money. then handed them over......Comment
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Originally posted by BrilloPad View PostDoes your 8 year old have learning difficulties? Are they statemented?
The children(up to 18) do need to come first.
You made a huge mistake of going this alone without a solicitor. All solicitors are effectively PAYG. Did her solicitor advise you to get your own solicitor? If not, they are in the poo.
I did the finances without a solicitor - including representing myself in court - but then I had an incredible McKenzie friend.
Go and get a solicitor. Do not contact her solicitor yourself again.
Did you not do any research first? http://forums.contractoruk.com/gener...following.html
Though there have been plenty of warnings about marriage since 2002 when f4j bought it to the world's attention.
Just to be clear - if you are a man - DO NOT GET MARRIED. DO NOT HAVE CHILDREN.
There again, happiness and contentment are over-rated.....Rhyddid i lofnod psychocandy!!!!Comment
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Originally posted by psychocandy View PostFlippin heck BP - bad experience I guess? Probably too late for most of us - I get the idea that I'd be shafted if I ever got divorced.Comment
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